I woke this morning thinking about you. How witty you are, the way you smile on your profile pic and the funny things you write on my posts. You a trip! lol
BTW I think you’re kinda cute! As matter of fact…you’re fine as hell! Did you say you were over 40? Get the F***k outta here! I bet these dudes be blowing you up on social media. But they ain’t ready! They only look at what’s on the outside. I choose you because I SEE YOU, just like in the movie Avatar. Your maturity, your awareness, and your subtle passion. Umm, humm. I know you’re a freak!
I can’t believe your single! And for those of you who are married I envy your husbands! I hope they know what they got! And BTW, I admire the way you tolerate some of the crazy ish people write on my thread. They be straight trippin’, don’t they? I know you want go off but you play it cool knowing you’re not going to change any minds. Some people are just stuck! So, you chill…till the next episode!
And that’s why I choose you. I choose you to LIKE on Facebook, to POKE, and sometimes to call and have a quick chat. Hell, we both single, right? And besides, neither of us has any expectations, we’re just texting, DMing and getting our flirt on?
I choose you because we may never meet but I know if we did we would have a ball, talking, drinking, smokin’ and laughing all night. I choose you because you don’t judge me. You know I’m a straight up brotha who’s just trying to get the conversation started; to talk about things that other men won’t touch with a 10-foot pole, because they’re worried about it hitting too close to home!
I choose you because we keep it 100, neither of us has anything to hide. We are transparent about who we are mentally and sexually. I choose you because you have the balls to live life on your terms…just like me.
F*** these hypocrites and close-minded robots living in the Matrix. I choose you because you’re a free thinker, that’s why you get me. And guess what? I get you too. We click!
But do me a favor and let’s keep this just between us. Nobody would understand us anyway, right?
Why I Stopped Cheating
Many years ago, I was married to a beautiful woman from Alabama. She was older, mature, and played her role as my wife impeccably!
At the time, I was in my early 30’s working for the Chicago Transit Authority (CTA) hanging out with friends and trying to figure out who I was and what to do with my life.
Unfortunately for my wife, she met me at a time when I was still immature. I didn’t appreciate her love and devotion, and I didn’t have anything to lose.
I didn’t own a home, I didn’t have a career, I didn’t have a reputation to protect, and most importantly, I didn’t have a vision for my life.
And that’s the point of this article. Most men don’t fear the repercussions of their actions because they have nothing to lose.
Yes, men can lose the woman they love and split their families, but men don’t think in those terms when they’re cheating, which should be obvious by the number of men who destroy their relationships every day with their infidelity.
In my opinion, until a man values his reputation and his integrity, he will never go through the process it takes to become a better man.
Don’t get me wrong, man do dumb shit regardless of what’s at stake, but the mature man will learn from his mistakes and realize that in order to build anything substantial it must be rooted in trust and honesty.
And here in lies the problem, most men aren’t involved in building anything or trying to leave a legacy. Yes, they have jobs, but most don’t have careers. Yes, some own businesses but they’re not growing them so having mediocre relationships and a mediocre reputation is no big deal. He’s comfortable.
But when you want to lead and establish something that you can pass down through generations you can’t afford to have people attacking you on social media, you can’t afford to have people showing up at your events shouting you down about some wrong you’ve done to them.
You can’t afford for some side chick to put you on blast for getting her pregnant or giving her a disease. Or for a man to accuse you of owing him money or screwing his wife.
My word is my bond, and my reputation is my most valuable asset. If you’re dealing with a man who isn’t passionate about doing what’s right and protecting his brand, then don’t be surprised that he constantly cheats on you because he has nothing to lose…that he truly values.
I appreciate your honest post it will allow other men to understand their major mistakes in their relationships!
Only a man who understand his purpose in a relationship will demonstrate great character, maturity and value for what he has in himself and most definitely the other person. ❤️ this post.
Life is to be enjoyed NOT rushed 😊