What’s Wrong With Being Picky? You Better Be! By Michael Baisden

It’s okay to say you prefer a God-fearing man or woman to a non-religious one. If you’re willing to reduce your dating pool based on that, go for it! Personally, I prefer to date women who see themselves as more spiritual than using labels of a particular denomination. But, again, that’s just my preference! What’s yours when it comes to religion?

I also prefer to date women who don’t have young children. In fact, it would be great if she didn’t have any! Of course, I have dating women with children and will continue to but there’s nothing wrong with having a preference. Are you bold enough to say you PREFER guys without kids?

When it comes to sex, I prefer to date a woman who’s down for whatever! What man doesn’t, right? But I prefer that she only be a freak for me. I don’t want her to have been a freak with every man. In other words, a “Selective Freak” Again, I’m just being honest about my sexual preference, are you?

When it comes to finances, I prefer a woman who can take care of herself. I don’t want her to need my money to survive. My money should be fun money, not hair, nails, and car payment money. I prefer a woman who needs to be enhanced not supported. Are you honest about what you prefer when it comes to your partner’s financial situation?

Last but not least, I prefer a woman who’s confident in her nudity, comfortable in every culture circle, open-minded and open to travel. And I prefer that she be strong enough to submit and to challenge me when necessary. And yes, if she open to exploring some things sexually that’s the icing on the cake, in fact, I need that mixed into the cake when we bake it.

And if this description fits you this is what I want you to do, Float on baby, Float on! 😂 You have to be old school to understand that reference.

~ Michael Baisden

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Men Who Are Good Leaders Choose Good Women! By Michael Baisden

I believe that leadership begins with the choice of the right partner. Women can’t knock a man for being a poor leader when she didn’t do her research to make sure he had the credentials to lead in the first place. I mean, why would you trust a man to lead who hasn’t demonstrated any leadership?

If a woman is smart, she’ll ask these revealing questions on the first date, “What are your goals? What are you actively doing to achieve those goals?” And “Where do you see yourself in the next three to five years?” If the man replies, “I don’t know.” Run for the hills! Above all else, leadership is having a vision for yourself and for your family. If you don’t know where you’re going, how do you expect to get there? And why would you expect anyone to follow you?

A man should at least have an idea about where he wants to be and be working towards that goal until a better opportunity presents itself. We live in a very competitive world; an intelligent woman would be foolish to follow a man who doesn’t have a plan. Likewise, we as men must choose women who respect our role as leaders. It’s difficult to listen to a man complaining that his wife doesn’t respect him and then when I ask him why he chose to marry her, his reply is, “I loved her!” And I say to him, “Loving a woman is not enough of a reason to marry her; marriage is a partnership and you have to complement each other.” To which he replies, “I never thought about it like that before.”

That’s precisely the problem. Men think with their dicks and their eyes. Just because a woman looks good and the sex is great doesn’t mean she’s going to be a good partner.

As men, we can’t choose women based solely on their physical attributes and then bash women for not being supportive. Chances are she was choosing you for the same shallow reasons, so I guess you both got exactly what you deserved, frustration, lack of appreciation and ultimately a divorce.

~ Michael Baisden

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