Nice Guys And Churchwomen! Do Nice Guys Finish Last?
Many men can relate to the humiliating experiences associated with dating and the club scene. It is an environment where perpetrating and game playing is the norm. The nice guy is out of place in this setting where perpetrators rule.
He would be better off pursuing a meaningful relationship elsewhere. “But where is elsewhere?” The nice guys tell me they get burned no matter where they look. Some say the best place to meet a good woman is in church. But oftentimes women in the church are no different from women out of the church, if not worse. Not only do you have to deal with the same level of materialism and promiscuity, but you have to tolerate the hypocrisy, too. Besides, I haven’t seen a shred of research that proves to me that women in the church are classier, more responsible, or more appreciative of a good man.
Many of them raise hell all week at the club, drinking, smoking weed, gossiping, and yes, having premarital sex, then go to church speaking in tongues while giving the preacher ten percent of their salaries. Is it all in the name of God, or do they pray and pay to cover up their guilt?
The nice guy doesn’t care one way or the other, he simply wants a woman he can share his life with and treat like a lady. But where is she? And how many times does he have to get burned before he decides it’s time to change his game if he wants to stop getting burned?
The Bible speaks a lot about heaven and hell. But if you’re a decent man looking for a quality woman in America today, you’re already living in hell!
Excerpt from Never Satisfied: How And Why Men Cheat By Michael Baisden
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