Is Your Partner Inconsistent? Chances Are They’re Cheating!
Men who elect to tell these lies about being miserable at home must continue to show signs of their unhappiness. Now the game becomes more complicated and the likelihood of getting caught increases. The wife or girlfriend begins to notice a sudden change in his attitude and his routine. First, he starts showing up late from work. “I had to work an extra shift, baby,” he’ll say. But his overtime is usually doing it doggie style at the motel with his mistress.
Then he’ll discourage her from visiting him on the job. No doubt to avoid running into his work whore. Finally, there are the most obvious signs of infidelity—working out more at the gym, buying new underwear, or his wedding ring abruptly disappears. Of course, he’ll try to use the lame excuse of, “I lost it.” When that doesn’t work, the next step is to merely find a reason to leave it at home altogether.
Men are notorious for using their work as a reason for taking off their bands. “It’s interfering with my ability to do my job,” he says. Now, that excuse may not be much of a lie, since his new job is chasing pu***. The dead giveaway that an affair is going on is simply this—inconsistency.
Men are notorious for changing their habits. The once a weeknight out with the boys becomes two or three times a week. Sexually he does not perform the same, if at all. And there will certainly be a shift in his attitude. Men are so bad at cheating that they consciously and unconsciously begin to pick fights to justify their cheating. Recently I did a topic on my radio show during Sloppy Cheaters Monday.
I asked women if there was such a thing as a respectful cheater. Mind you, I know that cheating is wrong and that men are already being disrespectful when they decide to cheat, but I wanted to make a point. Not surprisingly, most women agreed that there is a right way and a wrong way to creep. The expression that you often hear is, “Just don’t bring it home!”
During the taping of my film, Love, Lust & Lies, a woman from New York made it clear as to what that meant. “She better not call me, she better not know where I lay my head, and she damn sure better not be able to describe my house or what’s inside my bedroom.”
Her point was simple: Don’t allow another woman to impact my day-to-day life. No diseases, no outside children, no significant monetary investment, and no drama! But because men allow their smaller head to do all the thinking, one or more of these situations usually become an issue. But even after being busted over and over again, the hunt will continue. The next task is to find a way to communicate with his new lover without being detected. Now the real games begin.
By Michael Baisden
Excerpt from Never Satisfied: How And Why Men Cheat
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