If You Want Great Sex, Get Her In The Mood
You can have sex without intimacy and intimacy without sex, women want both, preferably the intimacy first and for an extended period of time. But what is intimacy? For me, it means setting the mood. That begins with a woman’s ability to trust her man. Once that’s established everything is possible!
Setting the mood with trust allows a woman to relax and have a deeper and more pleasurable sexual experience. And it’s our job, as men, to remove any distractions such as sexual health, inconsistencies, and lack of communication about what role she is playing. And the same applies to man’s need to trust his woman in those areas.
When you don’t have trust, you can’t explore the depths of your relationship mentally, spiritually or physically, because you’re too worried about diseases and being disrespected. When you don’t trust you don’t see your partner in your future and that will most definitely kill the mood!
Once the trust is gone the mood is jacked up and you’re just screwing! And you’re lucky if you’re even doing that because trust is not only central to intimacy, it’s also central to creating the mood for love. Not that surface love but that deeper love that can only come from being transparent with your partner.
No one should have to guess about your motives. Out of the gate, you should make it known, this is who I am, this is what I want, and I will protect you. Protect you from disease, protect you from drama, and most importantly, protect you from confusion. Confusion created by inconsistency.
So, stop killing the mood people! Be straight up from day one about what you want, be responsible in your sex life, and be consistent about what role you want that man or woman to play so we can get to a deeper intimacy…instead of just f***king!
By Michael Baisden
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