In a issue of the Atlanta Journal newspaper, there was a survey that estimated that there were over 80,000 more single women than men. It’s hard to be motivated to settle down when you have so many options of available, beautiful, and professional women to choose from. That’s not just about men being greedy; sometimes it’s simple math.
But the truth is many men lack the maturity and integrity to maintain long-term relationships. If you ask the majority of men they can’t even articulate why they lie and cheat, they just do it out of habit or out of selfishness. And we as men certainly don’t understand why our women are so disappointed. Yes, I said, disappointed, not bitter, because mature women understand that anger and bitterness are counterproductive. But they are disappointed, and they have every right to be.
Disappointed that a grown man can’t be honest about how many women he’s having sex with. Disappointed by how easily a man can walk away from his responsibility of fatherhood, even when they literally beg the woman to have the child and marry them.
Disappointed that too many fifty-year-old men have the mentality of twenty-year-olds, and dress like them too and disappointed that they have to take the lead. Yes, believe it or not, most women don’t want to be in charge, especially when they are in the company of a man, but what are they supposed to do when the man steps back? Naturally, they will step up.
Children have to eat, bills have to be paid, and things have to get done. Relationships are businesses too, and women understand that better than men do. One of the most important words a man will ever say to a woman is, “I got this!” And consistently follow through.
But the biggest disappointment women have with today’s man is that he does not make her feel secure, emotionally, sexually, intellectually, or physically. And once the security is gone, the relationship is doomed. There’s not a relationship expert in the world who will disagree with that!
By Michael Baisden
Excerpt from his book Woman Up!
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Women Say They Prefer Nice Guys But Why Do They Always Seem To End Up With Players?
Understanding the Dog is as simple as 1-2-3. One, he has no regard for the feelings of anyone except his own. Two, he will do whatever it takes to get women into bed. And three the Dog proceeds with his sexual assault on women simply because he loves the game. And I mean LOVES! How does the Parliament song go?
“Why must I feel like that?
Why must I chase the cat?
Nothing but the dog in me!”
Video Source: YouTube // George Clinton – Atomic Dog
This is his anthem, his motto, and his mentality. Forget about negative role models. This guy has made a conscious choice to have as many women as humanly possible. I’m referring to 37-year-old Ron, who I interviewed for this book. He is the epitome of the cheating Dog. As far back as he can remember, he hasn’t been able to keep his hands off of the girls. While the other little boys were out playing baseball and basketball, he was organizing a game of Spin the Bottle and Catch a Girl Kiss a Girl.
As an adult, he has never managed to remain monogamous for more than two months at a time. Which obviously explains why he’s divorced. The controversy surrounding Ron had nothing to do with his lack of sexual control but his unwillingness to accept 100% of the responsibility for his behavior. He actually had the audacity to blame women for at least half of his doggish deeds. What does he mean by that, you ask? Don’t ask me. Let’s get it straight from the horse’s mouth, or should I say, “Straight from the pound.”
First of all, I resent the term “Dog” to describe what is simply a lifestyle choice. I choose to have several women; it’s that simple. In my opinion this is the only sane way to carry on with relationships. No commitment, no worries, and no headaches. I can come and go as I please, no questions asked.
Sure, I may have to lie every now and then to keep the peace, but women expect that anyway. I just keep my business under cover so nobody gets hurt. Now before you get the idea I’m being cold-blooded about this whole monogamy thing, let me explain something to you. I’ve tried to be faithful on a number of occasions, but I just can’t do it. No matter how attractive and sexually satisfying the woman is, sooner or later I get bored.
Like most men, I need a little variety to keep things spicy. And having sex with different women provides me with that. I try to explain to women that there’s nothing they can do to stop a man from creeping. I don’t care if they do a striptease and pole dance for their man every night; at some point it’s going to get old. It’s not about another woman’s sex being better, it’s just different.
There’s no feeling in the world that can compare to meeting someone new and taking them to bed. You get a rush as she unsnaps her bra and pulls off her pants for the first time. It’s kind of like Christmas and New Year’s rolled up into one night. I know this may sound raunchy, but it’s real. I love the idea of lying in bed with a tender young thang on Friday and waking up next to an experienced vet on Saturday. After all, a man needs more than one pair of shoes to wear, right? Women are no different. You’ve got to be able to mix it up a bit.
The most upsetting thing about being a so-called Dog is listening to other men beg and kiss women’s asses just to get into their pants. They use stupid lines such as, “Sex isn’t everything you know.” or “I prefer a woman who has something to offer intellectually.” F*** that! I’ll take a great bl** Job over a spelling bee any day!
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By Michael Baisden
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