A Woman Wants A Man To Care If She’s Okay, By Michael Baisden
Every woman wants a man in her life who cares about how she’s doing if she’s okay if she’s safe. They need to feel secure is a basic female instinct that will never change regardless of ever-changing relationship dynamics.
When a man stops checking up on you, stops asking you to call or text to let him know you made it home okay, he’s not into you. A real man is concerned about his woman’s welfare and well-being. And he’ll make sure she knows he’s available to solve a problem or answer a question that requires a man’s perspective! As I’ve always said, the three most powerful words a man can speak to a woman is, “I Got You!”
And a man needs to feel needed to be in the mindset of protecting and providing! Even if a woman has it “going on” and she doesn’t technically need a man, make him feel needed dammit! Let the brotha open a tight jar or kill something! lol Because it’s only when a man feels your femininity and vulnerability that his innate instinct to make sure you’re okay…kicks in.
Too many women have taken the tenderness and submissiveness out of the relationship equation and expect the outcome of the man’s action to be the same. That’s just unrealistic. It’s in our nature to protect but not when we’re not appreciated or when a woman’s independence diminishes her feminine energy. Now, I know some women will say, “I’m not gonna submit to just any fool!” But I’m talking about the man YOU chose!
I know it’s easy to stereotype all men as no-good womanizers, I’ve read many of your responses to my commentaries, but what about the good men? Are you the kind of woman that a good man…a strong man would care about if you’re okay? Food For Thought.
~ Michael Baisden
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