Wives and Girlfriends Revealed: Do women prefer not to know who the other woman is?

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Comment by Nikke Ray on August 10, 2009 at 10:38pm

For me, I think it was always psychological. When it actuality, knowing and pursuing to know who the other woman is, only causes more strife, drama, and heartache. It's not necessary to know who the other woman is/was unless you're into emotional self inflicting pain. That's all it causes. I've actually met the "other woman" before. Not my idea nor my cup-o-tea. She staged the way he would get caught and it hurt my heart so bad. To see that this was the person he had been sleeping with and spending all of his time with and I only got 10 minute visits and sporatic phone calls. So with that incident, I pray that that would never happen to me again, but if it were to happen again I would not want to know who the other woman is. It sucks1

Comment by jenjen on August 10, 2009 at 8:44pm

Women say that they want to know, but they don't. Let's say you know, so now what? You love the fool. He might be a good father and provider. Are you going to leave? If you have to think about it, why know? Women are going to drive themselves mad trying to answer the one, so-called important, question, WHY. Here's the answer: It's not you, it's him. Don't drive yourself crazy wondering why someone would cheat on you after everything that you've done for him. Ask yourself, what makes him worth my love?

Comment by Andrea Stafford on August 10, 2009 at 8:04pm

Yes I would like to know if the man I am with is cheating and yes because diseases are real and I would like to know what Kind of women he his sleeping with because that will make me more aware of the kind of person that he truly is/ he's wrong in the first place for cheating. Try a little communication.

Comment by tladysexy on August 10, 2009 at 7:19pm

I want to know if there's cheating going onbecause there are too many diseases out there and this is probably one of the main reasons why, everybody being NASTY! I want to know so I can have a choice, he has the choice so let me. I need to know. I don't care about the identity of the lady. My thing is..... when you're at home with me who is she sleepin with.

Comment by Tawana Haven on August 10, 2009 at 5:33pm

Yes I wanted to know who she was, so I arrainged for us all to meet together. She and I were very cordial to one another. Him and her got into it and he told her she need to stay in her place. Everybody got out everything. He let her know that he wanted to work thing out with me his wife and that he didn't want anything to do with her.

Comment by Sherlicia Walls on August 10, 2009 at 5:24pm

I WANT TO KNOW! Plain and simple. I've been married for 20 years and my husband has had several "missteps" in our marriage and yes I stayed. Why...I'm glad you asked. I weighed the pros and cons of being in continuing our marriage. And in the end the pros out weighed the cons. I don't condone anyone cheating but I also want to emphasize that cheating isn't the worst thing a partner can do to damage a relationship. Write it down. If the pros outweigh the cons, you need to seriously consider whether or not leaving is a viable option for all involve, ( ie kids, bills, finances, love).

Comment by GAIL on August 10, 2009 at 3:32pm

Yes I would want to know who she is. Why should she have the priviledge of knowing who I am and me not knowing who she is. It could be that it was something that he wanted to break off before I knew about it and she wants to stop it by hurting me or my family. YES, tell me and if I have to find out on my own, then its bye bye birdie.
Your sister in the struggle. PEACE

Comment by Darrell Joyce on August 10, 2009 at 1:09pm

Those in denial do. Those seeking closure will. Those finding out can be faced with a harsh reality. Sometimes knowing WHO it is can be less important just knowing that he cheated. Again, as women strive to find answers, they seek the wrong answers. He cheated: are you going to leave or stay? And, can you forgive him and never throw it in his face again if you stay? If not... move on with your life.

Comment by Carla Schaple Meeks on August 10, 2009 at 3:01am

Yes I would want to know because the womens in this generations are crazy ass hell! They don't care if he married or not and I need to know because some women walk up to me about they want fight over my man she and he will have hell to pay. When He start changing I'm changing I;m not tolerating cheating at all.

Comment by Ashleigh on August 10, 2009 at 1:38am

If my man is cheating, yes I want to know who she is because if she was a pretender- acting as my friend....Im going to beat her ass.

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