Whether we want to acknowledge it or not, this has been an issue for generations; just not spoken about!
Young ladies either choose not to accept things from suitors and boyfriends, so they don’t have to deal with feeling as though they owe something. On the contrary there are young ladies that pride themselves on acquiring gifts from those interested. It makes them feel in control of their situation and therefore if they “share themselves with the young man”, it’s not because they felt they owed him anything, but rather it’s their choice.
As a girl or adult, have you ever felt obligated to “give up the cookies” because a guy was generous with you?
Or have you known someone who “expects” to get nice things from guys and feels like she’s just doing her part in the game to get what she wants?
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