Why do men stop having sex with their wives?

ABC News reported the following statistics on why men stop having sex with their wives...

68% She isn't sexually adventurous enough

61% She doesn't seem to enjoy sex

48% Interested in sex with others, but not with their wife

44% Angry at her

41% Bored

38% She has gained a significant amount of weight

32% No longer find her physically attractive

30% Suffer from erectile dysfunction

28% Lost interest and I don't know why

25% Prefer to masturbate

21% On medication that lowered their libido

20% Are or were having an affair

16% Suffer from premature ejaculation

15% Have difficulty achieving orgasm

14% Are too tired

9% Say she is or was having an affair

6% Don't have the time

Less than 1% are gay

For the men, we want to know if you agree or if you have another reason... Ladies, do any of these statistics sound familiar.

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Comment by MAYAH on January 31, 2009 at 12:47am
well let me give it to you as it is, im married for 17 yrs and my husband have to be hiding from me at bedtime because us as women we dont open up our selves to our husbands, sometimes when we argue it is not for long because if i know he is coming in the bedroom i position my self as naked as i was born either on the bed orsitting in the chair with my you know whatin his face reading a book so the first thing he sees is that part which he has no risistance for i would call him to show him a line or two from what im am reading and his eyes would go wondering all over from there i would give him what his eyes are looking at .us as women we need to look good in the house let our hair down take a little make up put here and there show him how much you two can have a candlelight dinner without leaving the house to go to a restaurant. let his you know what stays where he lay his head in the house with you. never give it a chance to stray. and if the pen is dirty the cock will stray
Comment by Bobbie Stroughter on January 30, 2009 at 12:14pm
I believe most of the statistics are true, I don't know why men stoping having sex with their wifes, only the men or man can answer, I know their is a reason, I also know that if you are not having sex with your wife you are having with someone, because we are human being, if you have been having sex, it just don't stop because you don't have it with your wife. what are men saying, when they say they are not having sex with their wife, or are they saying they are not having it at all.
Comment by Luke on January 30, 2009 at 8:02am
My two cents in my situation; is that my wife is just pure LAZY!! I have told her several times that her efforts will never get her lover of the year. Everything is pure routine. If she gets off her back, it will be a miracle. Before we were married, you think she was the next porno star, but her excuse now is that we are married; so I do not have to do all those things I used to do. No kissing her because its too much slobber. No oral sex because that is nasty. To her; attention in the bed is feeling around like a blind mole. Then commented, why am I not ready. Ready for what? She puts such lackluster efforts, that its just easier to hurry up and get it over with. Then the ultimate comment is, " All you want to do is screw somebody!" Well then if you have a problem with your own husband getting freaky with his wife, WHY complain when husbands leaves their wives. She listens to her so call friends, and i have told her I can not blame their husbands and boyfriends from stepping out. Matter of fact; I applaud them. I consider myself in good shape, and do not have a problem with her shape. It is just that now she figures that after 2 children that she is sitting on a gold mine. She believes that all she has to do is just lay there.... very little passion, desire and hell she is only 35. My thing is that you did everything in the world to get to this point, now that you are at this point(marriage); you now feel that your job is completed. Well sorry to say; its an everyday effort.
Comment by Muhammad on January 30, 2009 at 2:55am
The two affairs were like 6 years ago, nothing resent. The love is there, just not the sex. Besides the sex we have a great relationship, and I wish things were different I really do, I pray about it, we talk about, for the most part we have done everything except bringing in a thrid party. I'm not going that far. That's something I just could'nt do with my wife. And trust me if you knew us you could see the love that we have for one another, everything is great but that. :o (
Comment by stiff1 on January 30, 2009 at 2:11am
I have been married 17 years and i hate to say it but my wife is a strait turn off for me.SHE just recently gotten back to the point of not drinking and staying out all night .HOW can a man have sex with someone who do not not respect me or themself
Comment by Deloris on January 30, 2009 at 2:05am
Muhammad you were wrong for cheating on your wife. now what.
Comment by Portia Matthews on January 29, 2009 at 11:01pm
Women get dolled up to go out to catch the man...so she should stay dolled up to keep the man. I went to the gym before I met my hubby of 13 years and continue to go to the gym. It can get boring if one person is the pursuer all the time but, that's where communication is key. Dirty talking can be fun as well as long as you follow through.
Comment by Lonnie J Coney on January 29, 2009 at 9:31pm
I think in part,women stop doing what they were doing when they first were getting together with their mate. Men love excitement in sex. For the most part, women don't enjoy sex as often as men.
Comment by muLtiplying gRace on January 29, 2009 at 9:09pm
Why do men stop having sex with their wives?

Could it be the woman doesn't know how to have
relationship with her man?

Some women never go beyond the chase,,, they
get him, call it comfortable, cause all action to come
from him,,,

Variety is the spice of Life Ladies,,,
Be his variety and you'll never be bored.
Wake up!
Comment by Gayle Henry on January 29, 2009 at 9:05pm
These reasons can be remedied, unless it's a case where there is an erection problem. In which case you can seek medical help. Not to sound highly religious or judgemental please let me remind you, whether you are male or female that adultery is a sin, not only against God and your spouse, but against yourself. There are so many diseases out there that YOU are playing Russian roullette , you might as well put a gun to your head and pull the trigger. Most things that feel good are really tools used by satan to pull you down. Nothing you own legally for a while is ever good enough for you. You buy a new car, you love it!! it's just what you want for a few months! You see another one you like better and that car is no longer good enough for you. Men who see Halle Berry dressed provocative,usually lust after her... Yet almost every man she had ,cheated on her!!She wasn't good enough after a little time!!! Your spouse changing is not your enemy! It's satan using what you like against you!!Some Women see a handsome man, he's nice, takes care of you, loves you!! You really love him, for a minute.After a while he's too nice, he's not dogging you or cheating and after time, he's not exciting enough..You decide need someone who's not so boring, or has a little more money.. Work it out with your spouse,
If they did change talk to them about it.. If that does't work talk to God about it!! If the first one doesn't work, the latter never fails..


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