The Price of an Affair: What does the Other Woman get besides sex?

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Comment by Renee on August 11, 2009 at 10:53pm

I was the other woman and what was in it for me besides the sex was the freedom from a relationship. The fact that he couldn't be in one with me
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Comment by LATONYA on August 10, 2009 at 10:48pm

I'VE CHEATED WITH A MARRIED MAN FOR 10 YEARS OFF AND ON AND IVE HAD TWO CHILDREN BY HIM,LIVE IN A WONDERFUL HOUSE THAT FURNISHED PROPERLY AND DRIVE A 40,000.00 CAR. ALL THE BILLS ARE PAID BY THIS MAN BUT THE FUNNY THING IS THE WIFE KNOWS ABOUT ME AND SHE STATES,"SHE REFUSES TO LET HIM GO COMPLETELY." FUTHERMORE, I WILL NEVER COMMIT TO HIM BECAUSE HE IS A COMPLETE DOG AND HE DESERVES EVERYTHING I ISSUE OUT AND HIS WIFE NEED TO STEP HER GAME UP AND GET SOME TO!!! I'VE TRIED TO TELL HER GET LIKE ME BUT INSTEAD SHE CHOOSES TO SETTLE FOR A 1982 LTD AND LIVING WITH HER MAMA WITH HIS KIDS BECAUSE SHE CAN'T ACCEPT THE FACT HE DOESN'T COME HOME AT NIGHT. ONE DAY SHE TOLD ME," A HALF OF A MAN IS BETTER THTAN NO MAN AT ALL" AND I SAID" WELL I TAKE MY HALF TO CLEANERS AND ENJOY IT!"

Comment by MARLA O'HARA on August 10, 2009 at 9:44pm

Often, the other woman gets money...of course she ususally has to ask for it when sex is not enough! She gets tons of empty unfulfilled promises. She gets the siered conscience...for every dollar she receives, it makes for the wedge in his family's finances. Subconsciously these things needle her spirit. Afterall, what she helps to destroy is the very thing she wants for herself. Yet, the knowledge of how he carried on with her is always in her mind when she tries so hard to trust and believe anything he says.

No woman (or man) really wants to picture their man with someone else (even if it is his own wife). No man wants to picture his wife (or woman) in the embrace of another man, let alone on her knees servicing him in the same manner that they share. The mental picture is hard to erase...the questions are always there (you know the questions...does he say the same things to her??? Does she talk dirty to him??? Can she put her legs around his neck the way I can??? Can he lift her in the air without withdrawing??? Does he grip her butt the way I do??? Does she shiver under his thrust like I do???

She gets all this emotional turmoil and if it doesn't drive her crazy before he leaves his wife, it certainly will afterwards. And whatever you do...don't give him a key! You may come home one day and find the other other woman in your bed!

Comment by MonicaKay on August 10, 2009 at 8:46pm

Sometimes people, the other woman gets the man! My father married the "other woman". They were married for twenty-two years before he passed away. Sometimes, the first relationship is over, before the divorce. What a concept. People get your heads out your butts. Sometimes the "other woman" is the woman that the man is meant to be with. The "other woman" is not always in it for the material things, but because she found her mate. Every relationship doesn't last and is not perfect.

Comment by Remy on August 10, 2009 at 8:45pm

She gets a Temporary cure for Loneliness when she doesn't have a boyfriend.
Some women only decide to cross the line after they have waited on their own man.
But, while waiting the loneliness sets in after years of not being held. Also, while
dealing with all the lies and games. Usually when she deals with a married man,
he can be straight up with her. They can only see them a limited amount of time,
but they know from the beginning they can be held for that momentary satisfaction.

Comment by LT on August 10, 2009 at 8:28pm

MONEY ... I have had female friends/coworkers etc and they are getting sex and money. Only a small percentage of women are just getting sex and 9 times out of 10 if all they were getting was sex then they were the ones who did not know they were the other woman and they would go buckwild when they found out.

What kills me is that they in many cases I have seen they are fiercely loyal to there married man.

Comment by angel on August 10, 2009 at 8:10pm

Nothing but empty promises and false hopes...she gets nothing at all.. nothing..

Comment by jenjen on August 10, 2009 at 8:10pm

False hope and the man's time are available for many "other women" who want more than their number 2 spot. What did Steve McNair's "other woman" get out of it? Some women are the "other woman" and don't know it. The old saying is that you can't turn a hoe into a housewife. Many of these "other women" accept their positions and know their place. They aren't housewives and don't want that responsibility. It's like being in a relationship and single at the same time. Fortunately, the other woman might end up with a man who can't romance her after the monthly alimony and child support payments.

Comment by SoSHARPE on August 10, 2009 at 7:46pm

Although she doesnt want to admit it,and she may boast about the whole affair, The other woman utimatley gets left alone,,,,,and in the long run when the man gets busted ,the other woman gets humilated,,,because all the respect that she assume this man had for her goes out the window,,,just because he wants to prove to his wife how much this other woman doesnt mean to him.....it is a loose loose situation,,,,,so although the other woman think she gets the special attention she doesnt ,,,she gets a married man who is willing to lie ,cheat, and compromise his wedding vows just to get a lil nookie on the side,,,,,,,

Comment by Ella Reed on August 10, 2009 at 7:30pm

The other woman get lies, broken promises, broken heart

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