NY woman pours boiling water on cheating husband's crotch!

• Enraged at being two-timed by her husband of 20 yrs., a Queens woman poured boiling water on his groin as he slept Monday.

• The woman, 67, a registered nurse, carried out the crotch-scalding attack to ensure her spouse stopped cheating.

• The painful wakeup call left her husband, also a nurse, screaming in their bedroom.

• She immediately regretted the assault and called 911.

• Her husband, 67, suffered second- and third-degree burns from his knees to his abdomen.

• He was being treated at the burn unit at Nassau University Medical Center.

• Arrested on assault charges, the betrayed wife, an immigrant of Grenada [gren-ay-duh], was awaiting arraignment Monday night.

Source: NYDailyNews.com

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What would you have done if you were her or her husband?

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Comment by Cassandra Lil Drama Massey on August 3, 2009 at 11:13am
Why do people feel that violence is the answer. That use to be my line of thinking until I realized that I couldnt change my Husband. I had to change me, and I did. I loss 200lbs of whoring flesh in 2 hours. Thats how long it took me to pack up my house and leave. if a person is cheating in the beginning... cheating in the middle, common sense should say they will cheat til the end. I bet he will stil cheat burnt balls and all.
Comment by Good N Plenty on August 1, 2009 at 2:51pm
I feel that if he cheated before, he should have left or she should have left him alone! Peoples emotions are far too serious to play with and i have been down that road myself but this time in my life, my freedom mean so much more...
Comment by Benita Smith on August 1, 2009 at 12:42pm
I can understand her being pissed, but the bottom line is "she was wrong". I have been down that road and I THANK GOD I never carried out my plans to make that person pay for the pain they caused me. I can still enjoy my children and watch them mature into wonderful young men, which I couldn't do had I done the crime. Life is way too short for the dumb $#!&....Just pick up your stuff and move on...No it WILL NOT BE EASY...but yes...it can be done.
Comment by William Jackson on August 1, 2009 at 9:17am
When are people going to wake up and realize it is just dangerous to sleep around.

Not only is it morally and ethically wrong to cheat, as we all know, but it is dangerous
because of the STD's that are out there. At a certain age we should know better
and if he cheated twice what is she not giving him and what does he lack?

I'm not taking sides, but it takes two to cheat or give a reasons for a person to cheat.

She was mad and to me justified because he must have been caught the first
time and obviously again. She was mad and acted out of anger, just pray for the
both of them, but it was the man's fault and he got what he needed.

If the stuff was that good he had to cheat, then he should have been a man and left his wife
and allowed her to move on with hers.

Just my 2 cents..

Comment by medusa o0 on August 1, 2009 at 8:56am
all we know about is the cheating, maybe there was mental abuse or even maybe physcial abuse. mental abuse is far more worse thatn physcial because scars heal. let us hear the whole story before we judge this woman because her mind could have snapped!!!!!!!!
Comment by Mz.Suz on August 1, 2009 at 8:28am
I could not do that. But I had a aunt about 25 yrs ago do the same thing to my uncle. Half of his body was jacked up and you can still see the burn marks. I think when you cheat then whatever happens happens. Cause and effect. Remember "Bobitize" Lorena created a new word in the dictionary when she cut off her husband's thang and threw it out the car. If you want to see someone else, get out of the relationship, or work on not cheating. Doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure this out.
Comment by Dominique Jones on July 31, 2009 at 11:32pm
Why not just leave?
Comment by Kalima on July 31, 2009 at 10:47pm
This certainly wasn't right for the woman to physically hurt her "cheating" husband; however, people DO need to stop cheating on one another. The results are never good. People are also wrong for cheating. His cheating could have killed her,if he would have brought back a deadly disease.
Think about the McNair situation!
Comment by DJ Honcho on July 31, 2009 at 9:43pm
Nothing and I do mean nothing that a person does with their own body is worth another persons personal freedom, and age 67 she should have know better. That old "temporary insanity" plea is old and dead. She knew before old dude laid his head down, before he slept, before she brought the water to boil that he cheated so she had more than enough time to think of a way out (as in out the door) before she assaulted him.
Lesson to be learned:
Slavery in this country ended in 1865. A person can do whatever he or she wants with their body.
No verbal or written agreement can change that.

I have been witness to a homicide/suicide because of a woman cheating (if you want to call having routine train runs while hubby was out of the country simply cheating), had to deal with cases where young men snapped off and placed their spouses into comas and even caused a infant brain damage. None of that violence could undo what the other person did and their "reaction to the action" cost them a whole lot more.
Its all fun and games when a woman tosses some hot grits or boiling on on a dude, cuts off a mans penis, bust out the windows of is ride or burns his house down... But its a tragedy when a woman gets beat up, or her and her children get blasted, come up missing only to find their bones in a shallow ditch 20 years later.

Physically assaulting someone because they hurt your feelings or did something you do not like can be settled easily: File for a quick divorce on the grounds of adultery. If you are not married, pack your gear and step! Act out in violence and you will face considerable jail time (one day is too much for me) or be admitted into a mental health facility with some insane people who are crazy full time!
In the case above, she will experience at least 2, jail possible time in a padded room and one more, possible deportation! For what?

Just walk away from the nonsense people bring to your life. Love love and be you.
Comment by zuluking59 on July 31, 2009 at 7:05pm
A Case Of The Al Green Hot Grits : (


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