Married women gone wild! Why are so many women stepping out on their husbands?

You can go to any night club, lounge, business conference party or office party across America and find a ton of married women shaking their "groove thangs", getting their drink on, and flirting with many men.

A fair amount of these women cross the line and give out their phone numbers or even hook up with men they meet.

So what's causing many married women to get buck wild and step out on their husbands?

Are they bored with their home life and just want some excitement?

Is it their husband's fault (bad sex, emotionally unavailable, grew apart, etc.)?

Or is it nothing serious (what's wrong with a grown woman having a little fun every now and then)?

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Comment by iamsbavn on July 3, 2009 at 1:50pm
13 years ago I stepped out on my husband and it was the worst thing I ever could have done. I started dating him when I was 15 and at the age of 40 I didn't want to be married anymore. What a mistake that was! To this day, I regret doing what I did because he was my best friend and lover! So ladies if you have a good man, keep him. Every time I hear the song by Anita Baker "No one in the World", it tears me up inside because of the lyrics.
Comment by Precious Lennette Smith on June 30, 2009 at 7:37pm
It is so sad so many married women are stepping out on their husbands and putting their family in jeopardy. Some married women are so desperate to become single that they intentionally hope they husbands find out as to give her a good reason to leave. But once them women get their freedom they find out how miserable they are being single and the financial burden gets so hard to bare, then they begin to wonder was it all worth it.
Comment by Bullfighter on June 30, 2009 at 4:57pm
It's easier to have sex with a married woman than it is with a single woman...sad, but true. Married women want to get their rocks off, have a good time, and go back to being the wifey. A single woman wants to be romanced, wined and dined, etc. Any man looking for some "quick and dirty" knows that married women is the way to go. No wonder the divorce rate is approaching 60 percent...
Comment by Jasmine Robinson on June 30, 2009 at 10:57am
Why is this question of great concern, I will tell you. Men are realizing that two can play the same game the only difference is women are better at deception than a man is. Now, men are wondering when the change took place. Come on, women have stepped out since the beginning of time. The reason it is now a concern because a woman caught in the midst of the deception, which opened the door of secrets. So now, men are trying to figure out if they have to be concerned or will have the same issue.
Comment by Stephanie Storey-Morant on June 29, 2009 at 6:19pm
As a faithful wife, I approached my husband about my needs and basically he said "He's working" To me that meant do what you gotta do cause I'm too busy working to meet your needs too. This really hurt. We been married nine years and together 17 years. At this point All i want is for him to give me attention, take me out, give me compliments, hold me, and let me remind me why he married me in the first place.

This doesn't involve money and I i don't think I'm asking much...

So what's a woman to do? Sit around being neglected while he does what he feels. Yes he is working but he's suppose to be off two days a week and even goes in on those days. He also works nights and i work days so when am I supposed to get what I'm suppose to get?

I've never cheated but i tell you what one man won't do another one will which is the reason i think women go ahead and cheat....
Comment by Tim Williams on June 29, 2009 at 6:16pm
i'm single and one of my number one rules is not to mess with a married woman. i don't want to answer to God and a confrontation with the husband. i once (she lied to me) dealt with a married woman. she told me her husband moved out and that was a lie. he called me one day and told me she would sneak out of bed 1, 2 am to call me. he was a fool. that's another story. anyway i notice the little things i did was big to her. just the time we spend together i can say she fooled around because she wasn't getting the attention at home. she was not sexually being pleased and they didn't do anything. men take care of your women. they aren't that hard to please. whatever you did to get her. keep doing it to keep her. women aren't that hard to please.
Comment by Rose Lynch on June 29, 2009 at 5:01pm
Because they are tired of the same old friction!
Comment by Valjeanne Jeffers on June 29, 2009 at 4:58pm
I don't condone cheating, but I think like another Sister said there are a lot of variables involved. For one, men have been cheating for years. Women are just catching up to them. It's just like the cougar thing. Men have been dating women their daughter's and granddaughter's ages for years. It only became socially for women to this 5 or so odd years ago.
The whole double standard of male and female sexual behavior is also slowly but surely eroding.
Comment by GeoGeek on June 29, 2009 at 4:21pm
My husband didn't want to spend any time with me...not even once a month. I was honest. I told him upfront that I needed attention (a trip to the movies, a street fest, something....). He refused. I still waited a few months before I decided to go on a date to the movies....I told him before the date. I don't think he realized that I was serious...either way...I went! I could tell that it hurt him, but what's a lady to do... If I come to you and you ignore me...its your own fault!
Comment by Terryann Martin on June 29, 2009 at 4:04pm
lots of men when ever they get married, they become emotionally constipation, woman are tired of most men bull.


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