For years, rumors swirled about power couple Will Smith and Jada Pinkett Smith. Recently, in an interview with an Atlanta radio show
, Jada was asked about rumors that both she and Will are gay and in a marriage of convenience, she said:
"I've heard all the things -- their marriage is not real, he's gay, she's gay, they swing. But at the end of the day, people have to believe what they have to believe."
Hmm...that answer doesn't exactly scream, "No the rumors aren't true." Her comment inspired this topic: Should a couple date another woman?
The most traditional idea of a couple is a man and a woman, but what happens when you throw another person in the mix?
Some would say that a threesome will break up a relationship, and that most who feel the need for one are bored and unsatisfied with their sex life. On the flip side, there are people out there who think it could be one of the most amazing sexual experiences you will ever have!
Recent statistics show that about 20% of the American married populations are swinging couples.
With over 70% of men having cheated, 60% of women, and over 50% of all marriages ending in divorce, when are we going to be intelligent enough to consider alternative relationships?
Bringing another person into your relationship is not all about sex. Why can't husbands and wives share the same partner and grow together instead of sneaking around?
Wives/Girlfriends would get more insight into their men if they were open to meeting the women their men were attracted to. Not to mention, avoiding the humiliation of being in the same room with the woman your man was creeping with.
Is it possible for your man to be in love with and committed to more than one woman? Assuming he is mentally, sexually, and financially able to support them, what's the problem?
And as the Other Woman, why let go of a man you are extremely compatible with just because he's involved, IF he's willing to introduce you to his current partner? This will allow everyone to be honest about his or her feelings and expectations. No more sneaking around to text, e-mail, or call. And no more fake business trips for secret rendezvous! WE will see you in New York, because, WE are dating. lol
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