Is Masturbation Cheating On Your Partner?

I had a mentor whom recently passed very young at 61. He was a wise brother from the streets whom had become a pastor of a church. He had told me years prior that he saw a great work that God had for me to do and we would spend an hour a week in "counseling" for lack of a better word.

At the time of this particular discussion came up I was in a relationship that I really wanted to work. He made a statement that "cheating and lust aren't always the manifestation of me cheating with another woman. But that cheating occurs in his opinion when a man or woman masturbates he or she cheats on their mate. As always he wasn't being crititcal in a bad way he even shared his struggle with the issue.

Personally I think in todays world for single people it's a neccesity to keep one away from potential dangerous std's or the drama of indulging with someone you perhaps shouldn't or wouldn't. But we're talking about with couples. to me I think the practice would reduce "real" cheating because it will satisfy urges at times. sort of ones personal meditaiton indeed oneplay can be satisfying-Hey I'll be honest i bought my left hand a big diamond.....:-...! but then there's always someone that overindulges to the point they don't or can't perform smh...but anyway I got to thinking if massturbation's cheating then I'm going to likely be a cheating mofo all my life and matter of fact there are going to be a lot of cheating mofo's and moffoettes around the world! what do you all think?

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Comment by Pitt on November 4, 2009 at 2:04pm
manicure :-) yep we clear like spring water dear ......
Comment by Humpty Dumpty on November 4, 2009 at 9:48am
and to my friend and anyone else who chooses to masturbate I say "Carry on!" I may just treat my lovers to a manicure and paraffin hand massage! LOL!
Comment by Humpty Dumpty on November 4, 2009 at 9:45am
@Pitt - I wasn't implying that Onan was trying to get in her pants, darling. I was merely sharing my friend's convo with a man who was trying to convince her not to masturbate because he claimed that SHE was spilling her seed. This man was trying to get into HER pants. Now we're clear like spring water!
Comment by Sue Mari on November 2, 2009 at 12:45pm
That is the dumbest thing I have ever heard! I think that its healthy to masturbate
Comment by LARRY WILLIAMS on November 1, 2009 at 12:31am
no its not cheating....but if your in a relationship and you feel guilty, find some way to include her/him
Comment by Lewis on October 31, 2009 at 9:32pm
Comment by MISSHELL on October 31, 2009 at 9:02pm
Comment by Pitt on October 31, 2009 at 8:40pm
Comment by Truthbtold on October 31, 2009 at 8:28pm
I don't feel it's cheating but a personal choice
Comment by WORDLIFE302 on October 31, 2009 at 8:24pm
If masturbating was cheating well I have cheated more then once lol


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