Is a cheating woman worse than a cheating man?


Cheating is becoming a common place where women are considered conniving and men are considered dogs. A “conniving” woman probably means that some poor, unsuspecting man was getting cheated on and never had a clue. A “dog” of a man usually implies that he was sleeping around with random woman and leaving a sloppy trail of hair, drool, and chew toys.

So, who does it better... a cheating woman or a cheating man?

Does it hurt worse when a woman cheats vs. a man cheating?

Have you ever been cheated on? What was the most painful aspect of it – the surprise, or the feeling of betrayal?

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Comment by Beverly Pearson on August 13, 2011 at 3:00pm
 Have this ever came to mind?  How can a man or woman cheat without one another?  What's going on here is a form of "DECEPTION" on both sides!!  Karma is so true it might not happen when you want it to happen but it will happen. Neither man or woman get away with cheating, because it comes back to you,this is why the saying goes "BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU ARE PUTTING OUT THERE IN THE UNVERSE,BECAUSE IT COMES BACK TO YOU"!!!!  The person you cheat with and start having feeling for will do you the same way you did the woman you cheated on to be with her. Women are very wise,she sit back and think if he "DECIEVED" her he will do it to me so she get her "DECEPTION" in first and it goes on and on,if you don't stop cheating!!
Comment by Beverly Pearson on August 13, 2011 at 1:35pm
 There is no right way of cheating when you cheat you are cheating yourself. For a woman to cheat on her man kills her man ego and drives him crazy! For a man to cheat on his woman he loses her trust and the relationship will never be the same. Now both of them doesn't think about the selflishness in doing such an disgraceful act,only thinking of yourself. You no longer respect your relationship or marriage when you commit this act. What about your health this is how deseases are spreaded through out centuries.If a woman is being love the way she is to be loved she will not cheat,a man is a visual creatures and their eyes are never satified they always see something else they like. The core of this problem begin with "SELF- CONTROL" and if you don't have this you are out of "CONTROL"! Some men or maybe the majority of men don't want to control themselves they are so into pleasure that they lose control. When you can respect yourself you can respect another. The saying "THERE'S A THIN LINE BETWEEN LOVE AND HATE IS A TRUE STATEMENT" because when you love and you get hurt you ended up hating the person you once loved, on both sides. "CHEATING IS NOT WORTH THE PAIN YOU WILL FEEL AFTERWARD"!!
Comment by Von Wilson on December 28, 2009 at 11:56am
It doesn't matter who does it better. I think it is just wrong in both cases. However, it seems that men cannot take their woman cheating on them. I have issues with women/men cheating with married people or people in relationships because it shows no self respect. Why not say I am not ready to settle down? It is giving them the leverage they want to think they are the man/woman. It shows that they have no class and cant get one of their own. It will come back on them (men or women).
Comment by Southerngal on December 28, 2009 at 11:51am
So, who does it better... a cheating woman or a cheating man?

CHEATING WOMAN...cheating woman is worse because it's least expected & men usually can't bounce back after their women cheat.....cheating is bad no matter if its the woman or the man.

Does it hurt worse when a woman cheats vs. a man cheating?
A man's ego hurt worse than a woman's feelings. A man's & a woman's feeling hurts the same .
but a mans trust is broken and is hard to get it back..... Healing comes from within
Have you ever been cheated on? What was the most painful aspect of it – the surprise, or the feeling of betrayal?

I've had my suspicions. I'm no longer with that type of guy, that makes me suspicious of him....betrayal was the most painful ...once cheating occurs trust is lost, and the relationship is broken....
Comment by Dexter on December 28, 2009 at 11:46am
I can tell you this much .... It happened to me years ago, which made me NOT do it anymore .... WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND ... and when it happens to you it doesn't feel good. my woman will never have to worry about me ever stepping out .... which is worst? We would want to say that neither is better than the other but unfortunately society has taken care of this answer... A woman is worst ... I never said its right, its just the way it is ...... To me people who cheat are just weak and don't want to do what it takes to make what you have at home work .... handle your business at home and leave cheating out of the equation.... PERIODDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDD
Comment by Dee on December 28, 2009 at 12:03am
Why does one have to be worse than the other? Why are women supposed to be more Christ-like than men? If a woman falls short she is labeled with a harsh reputation but when a man falls short, "it's in his nature". I think the double standards only encourage a generational curse on our male children.
Comment by Queen~Nubia on December 27, 2009 at 9:26pm
Is a cheating woman worse than a cheating man?

I think a cheating woman is worse because it's least expected & men usually can't bounce back after their women cheat. They can't handle being cheated on as much as women can handle it. Men envision the semen inside of women's bodies whereas, they can just wash off the secretions.

So, who does it better... a cheating woman or a cheating man?

I think a cheating woman does it better if there's such a thing as a better cheater contest.

Does it hurt worse when a woman cheats vs. a man cheating?

Men's egos hurt & women's feelings hurt when their partners cheat but a man's ego hurt worse than a woman's feelings. A man's ego is outer & a woman's feeling is inner. Healing comes from within so it takes a man longer to heal their outer/alter ego but it takes a woman less time to heal if she taps into her feelings from within.

Have you ever been cheated on?

As far as I know, no, I haven't been cheated on but I've had my suspicions. Needless to say, I'm no longer with the type of guy that makes me suspicious of him.

What was the most painful aspect of it – the surprise, or the feeling of betrayal?

I'd have to say the feeling of betrayal was the most painful since I've never known for sure that I've been cheated on. I've cut those type of guys off too quick for them to make me sit & wait on the surprise.
Comment by Mslovethosethathate! on December 27, 2009 at 6:33pm
Cheating is Cheating! It doesn't matter who the culprit is...
Comment by Ms. White on December 27, 2009 at 5:12pm
I've had it done to me also. People dont believe in karma, but its real. Cheating hurts. So all cheating is bad no matter if its the woman or the man.
Comment by Grace kelley Dillard on December 27, 2009 at 4:55pm
I've had it done to me and it really don't matter cheating is cheating..


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