Have you been falsely accused of cheating?


At first, you were shocked, then it was cute (for a brief moment), but now you feel nothing but confused, annoyed, and even a little offended! Why in the world does this man/woman keep accusing you of cheating? You’ve been nothing faithful and loyal! You do your best to put their insecurities to rest but they keep probing!

You rack your brain repeatedly trying to figure it out! Yeah, you went out with your friends a couple of times...maybe you wore that freakem dress just to get his attention...but does this merit being accused of cheating?

Upon thinking about it, more two conclusions come to you!

A) Could this just be "game" to cover up that THEY are the cheater?

Or

B) You've got a Crazy, Deranged Boyfriend!

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Comment by Cheryl on February 24, 2009 at 8:19pm
Yes I have............. and come to find out he was the cheater, I have to agree with Michelle. Men who contantly accuse there mate are the ones who are cheating. I've come to believe that they are very insecure about themselve, that's why they accuse; maybe it's there size:)lol, or what they bring to the bedroom. If men were holding it down in the bedroom they would not have time to accuse there mate or be insecure. I think men are very insurcure when the have a small and you know the rest:) lol
Comment by SPICEY on February 24, 2009 at 2:17am
I'm in the same boat as most of you. The situation got worse after we decided to get back together after HIS extramarital affair! The thing is he goes off on some wild hunches because I work the night shifts. I must admit the love is gone....I'm am not very happy with the over possessiveness that he exhibits, this is why we are headed for divorce and several others reasons, but tell me how is it that since his return I'm on the hot seat? I have to vouch for every place I go...He even clocks how long it takes me to get home from work....Shame on me if i stop off for groceries or a day at the spa! he even says I spend to much time in church!!!! I'm just tired of fussing over the false accusations, Like Kiesha Cole says....I shoulda cheated.....But I'm not that kinda woman! But in 2009 I'm working on MY PEACE OF MIND!
Comment by Donovan Taylor on February 23, 2009 at 11:14pm
I was accuse of cheating, and i was not could not figure out why she was always picking fight with me only to find out she was having an affair, trying to say it was my fault if you are having an affair its no body fault but your own!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Happy to say i move on life is sweet...
Comment by nanette campbell on February 23, 2009 at 9:45pm
I was in a relationship for 8 years and after the first year start being accused of any and everyone first I thought it was cute that he thought everybody that he was accusing me of wanted me and then it became degrading but it was young men, old men, women and people of low self-esteem; that's when i became angry but I lingered on and on back and forth for 8 years. I never cheated during the relationship which ended May of 2008. I dont know if he was cheating and had to cover up his guilt with accusations. He is a good man; but i fear the next man I become involved with I am not going to trust so I am not seeking a relationship at this time. Things were done that I am too embarassed to mention not to me physically but embarassing to talk about.
Comment by entiZing on February 23, 2009 at 9:08pm
I admit I have cheated. but never when I was accused. Most don't have a clue when they are getting cheated on, until it's over. I was falsely accused, and it encouraged me to do it to prove the point that women re better at it.
Comment by entiZing on February 23, 2009 at 9:08pm
I admit I have cheated. but never when I was accused. Most don't have a clue when they are getting cheated on, until it's over. I was falsely accused, and it encouraged me to do it to prove the point that women re better at it.
Comment by Alicia Smith aka Precious on February 23, 2009 at 8:39pm
Nine times at out ten, if you are being accused of cheating, You can best believe you are being cheated on! It's guilt feelings on the part of the cheater and they want to feel justified in what they're doing so, what do they do? Create the illusion that you are. And on another note, if your mate is cheating it WILL come to the light. Everything done in the dark will eventually come into the light. You can't get away with nothing. It will come to you, you don't have to go looking for it. Thirdly, as the saying goes "A leopard never loses it's spots." And what goes around comes around. If you mess with a cheater he's most definitely going to cheat on you too; or the person you cheat with is going to cheat on you.
Comment by Sweet Dream on February 23, 2009 at 7:00pm
My Ex once accused me of cheating...Never happened but he showed a side I would have never expected to see. All happened after he told me it was over and he was done ( which was funny because I should have been the one to make that call long before), but the next day after I refused to call him and blow him up asking why like he wanted, so he started calling me and I IGNORED HIM! So he starts riding by my house and it was funny cause I was sitting on my porch talking to a guy friend (about him) and the fool rides by...ASSUMES we are doing something other than standing on porch talking and flips out (bust my car up, pulls a gun, calls me out my name the whole nine...) Long story short...he accused me to make himself feel better about ALL THE CHEATING he was doing...and that my friends is why he is an EX! And always will be. Took me a long time to realize my worth but I realize it now, and so does he! Too bad for him.....LMFAO... LOSER!
Comment by Brenda on February 23, 2009 at 6:20pm
ladies if you are single then it is not cheating. If he want you to himself then he need to put a ring on it. Otherwise, get some cheese to go with that whining. People who acuse the other partner is only telling on themself. So be cool it will all come to the light.
Comment by Quiche on February 23, 2009 at 6:17pm
It can be both. A person can be insecure which encourages their already possessive nature. Those types you should stay away from because they do not view you as a person, but as property. I know for a fact that accusations are usually used to divert attention from wrongdoing. It acutally is used as an excuse when a person is feeling guilty about doing dirt. The guilt drives one to accuse and provides a level of comfort. It is easier to cheat when you convince yourself that your mate is just as low down as you are.


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