Comment by Paradice on October 24, 2009 at 12:12am
Not all of my feelings depended solely upon the way my man felt about me yet depending on certain
things he felt it might possibly make a difference In how I feel towards him and in what route our relationships going and vice of verses! It is just like having a bad day at work… You try not to let it get the best of you and reflect upon your emotions and actions but it is hard not to because we are all human!
No matter how much we do not want them to certain things can and will get the best of us especially when it is being done by someone we care about! The better you treat me the better I am going to treat you! The more respect and love you show me the more respect and love I’m going to show you!! That same thing would imply to you I am sure as well! If I was treating you like a dog would I expect you to still look up to me and love me….. Certainly not!
If he feels a certain way about me that would make me feel uncomfortable and not happy with myself or him I would have to consider the reason why and if it is worth me doing something to fix the problem or better to just leave it alone and move one!
I will try to Give you Scenario as best as I can since I am hurrying to head to bed! You feel that your girlfriend or wife has gotten fat and is becoming unattractive well instead of saying dang look how fat you gotten which may make her angry with U, tear down her self-esteem and confidence even more and make her want to be less intimate with you since she knows how you really feel about her!
Buy her a new sexy dress or lingerie outfit you know she will love that happens to be one or two sizes smaller and say Baby I can’t wait to see you in this because I’m going to be all over you And that will mostly likely Get a different and better response and give her some motivation to want to take off those extra pounds just so she can please you and see that big smile on your face! What I am saying is yes it is hard for anyone not to let other peoples feelings and emotions that we love and care about get the best of us Because No matter How much we may hate to admit it, We are all creatures of our habitat!
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