Attractive, Employed, and Heterosexual Men: Why are they single?

The suave man you watched from across the aisle at the grocery store as he picked up fruits, veggies, a couple steaks, some chicken and ooh a little wine to wash it all down, got your attention.  And when you two again met in the parking lot because your cars were parked next to each other, you admired his brand new drop top BMW.  A very intellectual conversation was struck up and you found out he was an attorney, single and wanted your number.  Since he had made a move you got the feeling he was more than likely heterosexual.  So as you drove home you begin to wonder with all that going on, what’s wrong with him?  Why is he single?  
What’s your thought’s on why an attractive, employed and heterosexual man would be single?
He looks great on paper; do you really need to look any further before going out on a date with him these days; like a background check?

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Comment by Doria Patterson on May 15, 2010 at 3:17pm
In a recent panel discussion, I heard a Black actor say that men hear too many negative things about marriage. Of course, the happily married men are not saying anything, but the unhappy ones are very vocal about it. Also, men generally don't have the same "urgency" as women do regarding getting married. They can date for years and be happy with that.
Comment by ryan noel on May 14, 2010 at 3:33pm
good,you should have standards
Comment by Miss J on May 14, 2010 at 2:40pm
So Robert how come u didn't marry these women if they were sooo great..
Comment by Miss J on May 14, 2010 at 2:37pm
DarkSecret u are sooooooooooo on point....
Comment by ryan noel on May 11, 2010 at 12:14pm
well everybody is not like that coming from african american
Pharm D Sista
Comment by Robert on May 11, 2010 at 11:00am
To Pianki's point, the best women I've dated were from:

Sudan (my favorite chick)
Comment by Pianki on May 11, 2010 at 7:43am
Blackmen, if you are sincer and honest. Stable and productive. Here are some places where you can find the most adorable self asured and substainial beautiful black African women. Ghana, Nigeria, Ethiopia, SENEGAL ... (whoop whoop), Uganda, Mali just to name a few. I find the women in their twenties have a mid 30's or 40 ish mentality of a States Gal. Why continue to punish yourselves by engaging in the drama and entertaining conversations like this one?
Comment by L. Napoleon on May 11, 2010 at 1:49am
It is hard for a successful brother, because, music videos show us throwing money at women's feet. And now these little sweeties, turn in to GOLD DIGGERS!
Comment by Vernon Frazier on May 11, 2010 at 12:16am
It's not that easy finding the right person at the right time. Many are not relationship minded. Usually some drama is going on. Maybe being too quick to look for flaws. I know I won't give up. I think settling down is best. Being in search mode is just played out.
Comment by Rene on May 10, 2010 at 11:53pm
I was in a relationship for 14 years. When it ended, I was devastated. After a few years of being single, I met the most charming wonderful man. He was older, tall, smart, built, a veteran. Found out much later, he was married, so he was a liar too. Unfortunately, a situation like that makes a lady a lil gun shy about the relationship deal. Who do you trust enough to allow them into your heart. I am a very intelligent almost 40 year old woman. I have a great build, I am pretty, sexy, and I too make a very comfortable income. My friends tell me that I am a great catch...but it "ain't" easy!


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