Last Friday my wife called and me at work wondering what time I was getting off. I told her we had a few more things to finish up and I would be on my way which ended up being a lot more than I had planned and it took another hour and a half for us to finish up so when I get home she and the kids were sleep. So I awakened her to talk and tell her how much I love her so she sat up and we talked for a little while and she was like you should have called me back and said it was going to be longer which she was right I should have called, but I didn't know she felt like I had lied to her the conversation went on. So the next morning she wakes me up and tells me my son has football practice and my daughter has an appointment so I took him to practice and she also mentioned she made reservations for us for three that evening. Now we were at practice from 10-1:30 I get home she's dressed and the neighbor is there waiting for the kids and she says why have you been gone all day you know we have plans and the babysitter doesn't have all day. So I sat down thinking we had time and told her practice ran over then she starts yelling why are you just sitting there get dress put the kids shoes on we have to go, now I'm thinking we have time so she comes back down stairs and tell the neighbor that's okay we're not going. The neighbor looked at me and said is she serious I told her I guess so, then she left so my wife starts yelling at me about not trying to get ready and we were late and how I tried to mess it up and I just didn't want to do anything with her so it sort of pissed me off now I'm trying to defend myself because I know that wasn't the case then she say I told you twelve o'clock we had somewhere to be. So you know I'm thinking like I got you, your wrong you said three o'clock then it goes to it doesn't matter you wasn't trying to get ready. This small issue leads into a big argument where she ended up calling me a name and was like I'm leaving I need to get away from you and the argument continues so we went off on each other as couples do, now I'm highly upset I've never called my wife a name and it came out that day I've been sick about it since crying the whole nine apology after apology. Nothing can ever take those words back and I hate it even came out of my mouth but I can't take it back so she hasn't talked to me all week until she spoke the words I went to see a lawyer and we have to meet with him on Saturday so we can work out your visitations with our daughter I want a divorce. I've been pleading and begging buying her flowers and everything but I'm getting nothing I didn't see it coming. Can someone out there give me some advice please!!!!

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Comment by Lydia Richardson on October 25, 2010 at 6:59pm
@ Vanz

I always smile in amazement when I see what men say as it pertains to a woman and how she reacts without even knowing more than a small piece of the information. WOW!!!!

I seems to me that she was already to break up, but needed a reason, so she enticed you into a fight.

First of all, it always good to make a call when you can not be where you say you are going to be by the time you have already said. If the shoe was on the other foot, believe me, men would feel the same way. FYI - in these times women do not need areason to leave. We leave when we feel we have to. I see no enticement here.

Your at work so she gets mad, you take your son to football she gets mad.

It was not that he was at work, IT WAS THAT HE WAS LATE BOTH TIMES AND ACTED LIKE HE DID NOT GIVE A DAMN. Got it!!!!!!

Don't show up saturday stop with all the begging and man up, tell her what you want it's not a option because you still want to be married as long as you don't hit her she can't put you out. ..

You obviously want this man to lose his wife!!!!

@ Poster

If you want to keep your family intact you need to search within to see what you can do to make it better. Coming online to seek advice from those who do not care about you or your situation is the wrong way to go. You need to talk to your wife, not us.
Comment by Shafiq Abdur Rahman on October 21, 2010 at 6:58pm
Sure, "someone out there [here] can give [you] advice, that's what happens on these blogs, everyone has "advice" for someone else. You alone have to search your heart and determine what the appropriate move is. It appears that your 'relationship" is tainted, for whatever reason, and you alone must make a choice. Good luck, my brother.
Comment by Vanz Council on October 21, 2010 at 2:23pm
I seems to me that she was already to break up, but needed a reason, so she enticed you into a fight. Your at work so she gets mad, you take your son to football she gets mad. Don't show up saturday stop with all the begging and man up, tell her what you want it's not a option because you still want to be married as long as you don't hit her she can't put you out.


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