October 2011 Blog Posts (171)

Confessions of a Pretty Hot Chick!



Are we looking for love in all the wrong places?



Sometimes we want love so badly that we see what we want to see....…

Ok so I am a BIG Thanks Giving and Christmas celebrator however this year it seems as if I am the only one expecting the holidays to be great! I mean I’m not a big spender, shopper, or expect to get anything because materialistic things are really not a factor in my life but to so many others it is but getting gifts is not my joy for the season, it’s the family and friends love, the good food, and the special holiday parties that I look forward too.

My problem is there are no holiday…

I decided to give up sex & relationships for a lil while and to be honest it feels great! I really gave it up because I needed to make a change in my life and stop focusing on pleasing my lover and start pleasing myself. And because I gave up something that I really enjoyed I now can enjoy many other things like, I have more time to spend with the family, I eat right, I jog and swim more, read more, take care more things around the house, being more focused on my…

Oh. sorry, I am just trying to make a point! 

Preacher Fo' Real

When was the last…

There is a myth that Black African American men today run from commitment. I for one believe this is nonsense or makes no sense!

Just as sisters do, more than ever; brothers want a long term relationship or marriage including for example brothers who have been in a relationship or married before. In fact, those previously married brothers typically don't stay single for long.

What has appeared to sisters as resistance to commitment in us brothers (like sisters)…

Ladies and Gentlemen of the Jury, it is with great pleasure that today I will be bringing to justice a serial killer that we've all come to know and trust named "Common Sense."  For years common sense has been unconsciously destroying/killing relationships and marriages.  It is common sense that keeps individuals from effectively communicating because they assume that their thoughts are "common," causing them not to explain why they do the things they do, or how they come to the…

SEEKING THE KINGDOM

In Matt. 6:33, Jesus said,…

Hello everybody,

       My topic today is "What are you doing to give back to your Community?  

     Long time ago, I told myself I will participate in community organizations, where ever I live.  I believe we are put on this earth to help each other.  My Motto is: I am here to Enlighten, Encourage and…

There have been "afro-centric" attempts at discrediting the religion of the HOLY BIBLE for a long time, and surprisingly it is actually a cleaver RACIST ploy to "diseducate" Black people as to their TRUE RELIGION ..always in an attempt to portray the information as somehow patently AFRO-CENTRIC...IT IS NOT…

The other night I watched a DVD of a PBS program of R&B from the 60’s and 70’s with Aretha Franklin and Lou Rawls and others. It was wonderful. The audience was totally Diverse and everyone was having a good time.

It got me to asking – What If? What If our Society had not had Slavery or Segregation? What if our government in the late 1700’s had had the guts to say that Slavery was Illegal in the United States. What if our government had had the guts to say…

O.K.People:

Here it is!  I'm SICK AND TIRED of hearing all this "whining" from women about men and men about women!  It's been going on since Moses was on the Earth.  Well, after many years of thinking and thinking and thinking, I have FINALLY found out the MAIN problem between men and women!  Are you ready?  Here is it:

OUR SEX DRIVES ARE "OUT OF WHACK!"(Read: Imbalanced)

It must have something…