WHY DO MEN USE THE .....DISAPPEARING ACT........when their ready to leave the relationship......whats up with the guys that does that....

GUYS ARE YOU THEIR ......

 

NO CALLS, NO INTERACTION WHAT SO EVER.....

 

POOF THEIR GONE....LOL....

 

 

WHAT IS THE REASON FOR THIS ACTION TO TAKE PLACE...

 

AND WHY.....

 

LETS HAVE FUN WITH THIS QUESTION, DON'T BE SHY......

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I FEEL YOU ON THAT......YES THIS WILL BE INTERESTING ....LOL....
How strange that I'm going thru that situation rite now! I've been talking about doing it for months, and initiated once again,'disappearing act' or the silent treatment'.
I use 'it' as a begining method of informing YOU, that the thrill is gone!

The problem is that most hard-headed women, use aggressive salesmen-like skills, that are meant to wear down their prospect. Using a variety of methods, ie; logic, gifts, and most times sex, to lure-in, -n- then capture their target!
Hence, All women are taught that the way into a man's heart is to wear tem down!
Thus they ignore the subtle messages given, and men are forced to pull a disappearing act.

Hi Janet, I've been gone from this site for some time. Nice to see your pic!
I use 'it' as a begining method of informing YOU, that the thrill is gone!

I am guessing maybe some men or all men use this method......smart move .....No excuses, no contact.....

their is NO better way of letting a person know your no longer interested....than to say nothing....
Welcome back Janet. I am hoping you are here to stay if not just drop by and say you are OK.

When the thirill is gone and their nothing left you disappear because you don't want to hurt that person feeling. Sometime it's best doing it that way because the person may want to trip on you knowing that you want to move on and the case maybe she don't want you yet she don't want you to have any one else that she think would make you happy.
Sometime it's best doing it that way because the person may want to trip on you knowing that you want to move on and the case maybe she don't want you yet she don't want you to have any one else that she think would make you happy.

THIS DOES HAPPEN ....LOL.....ITS NOTHING LIKE A SCORN WOMAN...

Well I don't think it is always that way .... having to do with hurting that woman feelings...the woman should accept it and move on....OF COURSE....

The point is that the man is moving on.......Bottomline

Sometimes the guy comes back for more .....regardless...Just to see if he can get back in.........SEXUALLY......even thought he has moved on ....AND......has no interest in the woman....lol...

Their are many scerinos to this twist...On a man perspective..

So this will be interesting....lol....
@Janet things like this happen just as when a women tell us she's mad at us and we should know why. I would say Ok and disappear for an hour or three or four. LOL This kind of act goes both ways and from a man view it's an easy way out. When the thrill is gone and their nothing left for you to pack your bags.

You feel that it is Heartless?

Their are times when a woman will drive a man to disappearing. Drama, Drama here it come. I am gone for the day.
This is an excuse some men use for the ......DISSAPPEARING ACT....lol....*an easy way out*

Driving a man away .
Drama.

Of cousre their are many things that would make a guy disappear....with no contact.

These are good reason....lol.....
I think a lot of times men are not that verbal enough to say the words. They just leave a woman to believe and wonder what she wants and then when the man is seen with another woman and is approached that's when the woman realizes that it's over. It's a cowardly way of ending a relationship.
So true....

But its a clean get away .....for the guy .....There is nothing to be said....POOF in the wind....

Meaning that the guy wanted to get away from you that bad he said NOTHING.....
Even if there's nothing seriously going on where he HAS to leave. He's just not feeling the relationship anymore and...gone...nothing...no explination.

The bottonline is that some guys do not care...all they are looking at is getting away no matter how good or bad their situation is with this lady.............It can be a finanical things, personal thing, or whatever...This also can just be a selfish act on his behalf....The thing is he left .....No question about his intentions....lol....No need to wonder....You didn't mean enough to this guy to CARE...

 

POOF...now u see him and now you don't....lol....

Hell you start telling a woman that you want out and one of the things she says is I have given you X number of years of my life and you are going to walk out on me.  I will F.......you up.  Now this is where I say I don't mean it and when she leave the house Guess what?????

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