Why is it that when your fine a man just cant be friends with you without sex?

Replies to This Discussion

Permalink Reply by Nate Smith on March 1, 2012 at 12:18am

What's the fun in that Charming?

Permalink Reply by Charming on March 17, 2012 at 3:11am

Well actually you get to find out if he really is interested in you or if he's full of bull......, 

Permalink Reply by Aaron Homer on March 1, 2012 at 12:20am

So did you make a post just to advertise or are you serious? Most men will want to have sex, is that a norm, I don't know. You decide but not all men will & those who don't want to have sex until they are married, will not try to make a move. It can be the men you decide to be with or it could be the position you put yourself in or the way you present yourself. These are just scenarios, I don't know for sure.

Permalink Reply by Nate Smith on March 1, 2012 at 12:30am

Apparentl

Permalink Reply by Charming on March 17, 2012 at 3:04am

Your right all of the above. But Im sexy naturally.  Even babies follow me around pulling on my skirt. Its the Angel perfume that I wear maybe. All I know is they all want to bite me and Im like common keep it real.   

Permalink Reply by Aaron Homer on March 17, 2012 at 10:45am

Maybe, it's those you come in contact with because as I say, all men are not just out for sex, but something that is good. I speak for myself, sex is only a by-product of a relationship. If I have nothing good with a woman but sex, it ain't worth my time.....

Your words & posture say a lot of how you position yourself....

Doesn't matter how good you look, what you have, what you can do, to me, it's a waste. Been there before so I know what I want. You learn a man not by his words alone but listening to what you see......think about it. Stop listening to the outer appearance. On that note, I'll leave it to figure out how....

Permalink Reply by MR. Coffee on March 1, 2012 at 8:02pm

Charming when a man take to long to ask you for sex you and lady friends say girl what wrong with him is gay or is he on the low down or should tell the man when to have sex with you or should it be that the timing is right come on sister let the brother know.

Permalink Reply by Aaron Homer on March 1, 2012 at 8:06pm

I have to say, not all women do this. This may be those certain women that some men tend to deal with.

Permalink Reply by Charming on March 17, 2012 at 3:02am

Your all right actually. its just that because your horny is not our fault. Just keeping it real. There are tramps out there that will readily have sex with you on the first second  date for a hamburger or  they were just raised to be sluts.

Yes guys do marry the best slut that is available its true. And you have some guys that brag about how they are and what they do etc., And for the guy that asked if I made this post to advertise well yes kind of yes and kind of no. Actually. if a chick needs money she needs a hustle to get that hamburger that she needs instead of laying down for free. Yes Im tempting thats natural. Come on your a man you know what Im saying.   

Permalink Reply by Charming on March 17, 2012 at 3:10am

Absolutely I had one of those sweetest man on earth never wanted sex he was even younger than me. We were the best of friends he brought me something special every day. After two years I left his ..... Because something was wrong what I dont know.   

Permalink Reply by Aaron Homer on March 17, 2012 at 10:50am

It's because you are more drawn to men who wants you for the same thing. Some women, not saying you do but I don't know, want men to want them for their body; even to lust after them. You may want to check yourself & what you really want. It's possible you could have left the one that was best for you....

Permalink Reply by terrance hymon on March 1, 2012 at 8:16pm

CHARMING

 

       i hate to say this but you making a double standard. one is that you find a man? well i think when a woman find a man she want to eventually have sex with him. the other double standard is cant be friends without sex. most male friends are not thinking about having sex with his female friend. so if yo utalking about you finding a male friend and he is trying to get with you then i can see that for most men would not want to be friends with a curvy woman who is smart and can make a mean meal. he is going to see if you can f** his brains out. dont take it as a insult it really is a compliment from the men. what your result to men pushing up on you is that i dont want that type of relationship with you i only want to be friends. i think that will stop or slow men from trying to get with you. 

• ‹ Previous
• 1
• 2
• Next ›
• Page