My cousin (male) and I were discussing good men, men that aren't ready, and men who will never be ready. He disclosed to me that some men (apparently the ones I've encountered), will do anything to get out of a relationship, when they know the woman is wife material. Men, what is your take?
Have to agree with you Aaron...Especially the no good man...because he will probably try gamble on her not knowing her worth or assume she can be treated just like the hood rats he normally dates. plus he has nothing tp lose but time....is what it is.
I DISAGREE ALSO , WIFEY MATERIAL MAY BE DIFFERENT TO EACH INDIVIDUAL GUY BUT IF I FOUND THE ONE I CONSIDERED TO BE WIFEY MATERIAL , I WOULD WANT TO SEE IT OUT , EXPLORE THE POSSIBILITIES......
he still gonna hang in there until you decide to drop it if your the wifey type ,,,this is how those 8 year relationships with no marriage in sight are formed. Now just my opinion I would say I'm not ready for that or I am ready ... as soon as it presents itself , no sense in wasting someones time . I once had a Rel I was in and two weeks after starting to date she said she pictured or her goal was to be married in six months and if i wasn't then I may not be the right guy , now I hated the proposal cause I was really diggin her but I knew I wasn't going to be nowhere close to wanting to be married in 6 months ,,, heck six months flies Most of us can remember what we did for New Year like it was yesterday ,heck thats been six months ....
lol!!! she was real straight forward. I agree that is a bit much.
I agree that if he feels a woman is wifely material and he is not ready to settle, he won't try to progress the relationship.
sorry to say charlene, i think your cousin is full of it. every man have a type of woman he love to have fun with (recreational sex) and a woman he love to spend the rest of his life with(wife......til death due us part). now if a man is trying to get away from you means two things to me. one, he dont see a future with a woman or two, he dont want to deal with a woman B.S. anymore. so a woman who is truly holding it down wll have a ring on that finger.
Wow Terrance you have some valid points.
Hell, guys will wife a woman up and the have women the side after a couple of years. I don't know very many guys if they know they have a woman that is wifey material that wouldn't marry her. If he doesn't want to marry the wifey material type then he just doesn't want to get married period.