I believe some men see women that are partaking in a celibate life style as a challenge. Meaning if they can get her to give in... then he is the man.
What do you think?
Very interesting topic, Leslie..
I agree that for some men it is an ego trip to try to convince a woman to give up celibacy for a ride on his joystick. However, if a celibate woman takes the time to think on what the man is offering her, she will realize that it isn't worth it to engage in any kind of relationship with such a man. First, he does not respect your commitment to keep yourself until marriage. Second, he believes that he "deserves" to have sex with you, without the commitment of marriage. Third, he believes that he has "scored" if he can convince you to stop obeying God, and give in to your lust (and his). Finally, he has not thought past the act of sex to a relationship, or he would be more than willing to build a relationship, commit, then have all the sex he wants with you as his wife.
Mildred... girl you are preaching the gospel. All I can say to that is amen.