Do some men see women practicing celibacy as a challenge?

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Permalink Reply by Mildred Combs Haslett on August 2, 2011 at 2:45pm

Very interesting topic, Leslie.. 

I agree that for some men it is an ego trip to try to convince a woman to give up celibacy for a ride on his joystick. However, if a celibate woman takes the time to think on what the man is offering her, she will realize that it isn't worth it to engage in any kind of relationship with such a man. First, he does not respect your commitment to keep yourself until marriage. Second, he believes that he "deserves" to have sex with you, without the commitment of marriage. Third, he believes that he has "scored" if he can convince you to stop obeying God, and give in to your lust (and his). Finally, he has not thought past the act of sex to a relationship, or he would be more than willing to build a relationship, commit, then have all the sex he wants with you as his wife.

Permalink Reply by Mzjubilee2u on August 3, 2011 at 6:46pm

This is true, once i let a man know i am celibate it is like his under guy stands straight up. Men love going into a house that has been locked. They would love to be the one to open her up. The longer you walk we dont fall for those tricks we can see it coming and i move on.

Permalink Reply by Mary on August 11, 2011 at 10:23pm

Mildred... girl you are preaching the gospel. All I can say to that is amen.

Permalink Reply by the SHADOW on August 3, 2011 at 11:09am

DAWGS see this panting (sure) .... women who have DAWGS just make he has his shots ....

Permalink Reply by Mary on August 11, 2011 at 10:21pm

I really hope not because its hard enough trying to walk the walk with out someone targeting you to break but the devil knows how to tempt us, I just pray for the strength to make it through,