I HAVE A QUESTION FOR THE GROUP
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WOULD YOU GET UPSET IF YOU FOUND OUT THAT SOMEONE SENT A NICE ROMANTIC MESSAGE TO YOU AS WELL AS OTHER PERSONS IN THE GROUP? WOULD IT BOTHER YOU IF THE ROMANTIC MESSAGE WAS SENT TO OTHER GROUP MEMBERS YOU KNOW? KEEP IN MIND ITS JUST A MESSAGE NOT A REQUEST FOR A RELATIONSHIP, HAND IN MARRIAGE JUST A ROMANTIC MESSAGE. WHAT WOULD YOUR REACTIONS BE?
WOULD YOU GET UPSET IF YOU FOUND OUT THAT SOMEONE SENT A NICE ROMANTIC MESSAGE TO YOU AS WELL AS OTHER PERSONS IN THE GROUP? WOULD IT BOTHER YOU IF THE ROMANTIC MESSAGE WAS SENT TO OTHER GROUP MEMBERS YOU KNOW? KEEP IN MIND ITS JUST A MESSAGE NOT A REQUEST FOR A RELATIONSHIP, HAND IN MARRIAGE JUST A ROMANTIC MESSAGE. WHAT WOULD YOUR REACTIONS BE?
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Permalink Reply by Sincere1 (Lynetta) on -
Hello AIA - wow! this scenario wouldn't bother me because I wouldn't take such a message seriously. Something is wrong with the self esteem of ANY woman who is that easily taken in.
The reality is - the internet is a melting pot for men who prey on women by lavishing them with compliments, HOPING to catch a few who are weak enough to fall for it.
There are guys right here on ISC who play such games and there's always a trail of women foolish enough to compete for their attention, even bickering with each other and losing friendships over a man they've never met. It would almost be laughable if it weren't so sad. If they took time to review his profile, then see what he's writing on other womens' profile - duh!
I pay close attention to profile pages and 'patterns' of behavior by men over the internet. My advice to women: NEVER be so lonely or desperate for a man's attention that you allow yourself to be used and reduced to becoming the catch of the day to someone who has no real interest in a lasting relationship, and likely wouldn't not have been your choice for a suitor in real life anyway.
If you have to be cautious with men whom you meet in person, that goes double for the ones you can't see! -
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Permalink Reply by Unikone on -
In this group that I'm in, there's one sent almost every week. I am sure some of you ladies get the same message from this group. Doesn't bother me, glad I am included. Think I would be more offended if not included. Obviously this person admires me as well.
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Permalink Reply by LuciousL on -
No I personally wouldnt get angry, because maybe he made someones day and its always good to hear nice romantic things even if it comes from a stranger
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Permalink Reply by FRANQUE on -
Certain men have sent me what I call "Blog Romance" messages. I've become an expert at spotting msg's that aren't sincere. If someone wants my attention, make it a personal message.
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Permalink Reply by lady C on -
1st of all this is the world wide web. I wouldnt allow myself to get emotional with members & no I wouldnt get mad for some this is fantasy, game & pretend etc. So thank em for the compliments & keep it moving.
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Permalink Reply by LadyLuv on -
It would not bother me, unless I have some type of romantic feeling for that individual
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Permalink Reply by marian hill on -
he's just a playa trying to get a reaction from anyone who responds.
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Permalink Reply by Dee Smith on -
I think that it would..How many romantic messages do you have to put out there. You are either interested or not, I think that it shows how he will behave in a relationship...
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Permalink Reply by Brenda Williams on -
That person is looking for someone, maybe they are just putting it out there just to see who responds to their messages and then start something.. Please do not waste you time feeling something negative. Your time and emotions are more important than that. And think about it This is the world wide web and unless you are having private conversations with someone you have to think many many more are sending and receiveing the same thing.The ladies who commented are right!
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