I hear ya, but don't feel it. I mean, it's not an either/or proposition for me. Sometimes the "foreplay" comes in the form of comments made throughout the day... the clothes she's wearing, or as you stated, candles, music, etc... Other times it's just... HURRY UP AND GET YOUR CLOTHES OFF!
Juan, good answer but you prefer Naked and raw without all the other stuff, she sprawled out naked you know you going in for one thing and that's to get it. If she got candles lit and music playing you know the magic gonna happen but after some extra attention and commentary. Most men want the hurry