It’s like music to your ears when your text message alerts you to
“have a good day!” How sweet it is to get those unsuspecting phone
calls from the man who is attempting to sweep you off your feet. By
lunch time—another alert “thinking bout you!” Now your smile has went
from Cali to New York in 3.5 seconds. He’s really laying it on thick
now, and as soon as you clock out for the day the phone is ringing, with
him on the other end saying “I’m trying to see you this evening.” How
overjoyed you become as you tell your homegirls, “This one might be the
one ya’ll!” Your girls don’t make it any better as they are planning
out your wedding announcements without even meeting this new cat.

The morning, afternoon, and late evening phone calls continue for about three months. Followed by dinners, movies and pure quality time. At the beginning of the fourth month mark, the morning text turns into
an afternoon text. That afternoon text turns into an evening call, and
that evening call turns into a late night BOOTY CALL! OK, we have all
heard the stereotypical tiers that men have (1) Wifey (2) Baby girl (3)
Side piece and (4) the JUMP OFF!

 

A Man Has 4 Different Types Of Women In His Life...

1.Wifey. Wifey is the sexiest, most successful and most respected of all the
women. She is loved, needed and wanted by her man…she is VIRTUALLY
IRREPLACEABLE. She is the girl that the guy loves and will always love,
he never wants to see her with another man…BUT he will cheat on her with
Baby Girl until he is mature enough to realize that if he gets caught
or fcks up in any way and loses Wifey, he would be screwed, and NEVER be
happy again.
2.Baby Girl. Baby Girl is ALWAYS just as hot as wifey and usually has a very active social life…she IS
replaceable, thinks she’s the next Wifey, but there will only be Wifey.
If an extreme disaster takes place. Baby Girl gets some of the benefits
of Wifey, like quality time every now and then and even presents on
birthdays and holidays, but that’s as far as it goes. The main reason to
have Baby Girl is in case Wife really really f*cks up, she can be
replaced in a matter of weeks because Baby Girl has been groomed to slip
right into her spot.
3.Side Piece. Side Piece, usually a female that the guy uses only for sex & other pleasures,
she is usually the one that he goes to for that three-some or some late
night head after the club. When Wifey is acting up and Baby Girl is at
work, the Side Piece is usually the one to hold him over for a few hrs.
He can meet with the Side Piece for reasons other than sex, but normally
that only happens one week during the month.
4.Jump Off. Jump Off…every man’s dream and worst nightmare. She is trying to move
up in life, wants to be a Side Piece or Wifey but doesn’t know how to go
about it. They are just the girls he hollas at when he is with his
boys….she is usually stored in the cell phone by a nickname because he
barely remembers her real name and where he met her…he only recalls how
fat her ass was


Now, I pride myself on being the wifey, but have I subjected myself to becoming the Jump off? Yeah, I answered the phone and let him come over at 2:30 a.m. (after the club) a few times, well
more than a few times. But, if you want it are you playing yourself? Or
are you getting yours? Now your smile has went from Cali to Florida in
3.5 seconds.

Is it possible to redeem yourself? Is there a way to go from jump off back to wifey status with the same guy or do we tastefully move on to the next with hopes that this one “may be the one
ya’ll?

Tags: babygirl, jumpoff, or, piece, side, wifey

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i'm wife and if he cheat his as ... is gone
This response by MS TAMMY VEREEN 4 should have ended the discussion. Because in this day and time, most people are smart enough to say no and make much better decisions as it relates to their sexual lives.

Most men and women who are serious about their relationships or affairs, don't want to be the other woman or the other man.


Check out the clip " I'll Be The Other Woman"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_LEPSoSOGmE

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZP2U7qX0-ps
The question is do you really want to be considered the wifey or the jump off. The jump off might sound bad initially but do you really want to be known as his wifey?? Just curious.
Well I am kinda with Nate, frankly I don't want to be consider any of them because none getting any real respect, truthfully when a guy says wifey, top bytch, my #1, or the like to me I am immediately turned off, that to me will neever go anywhere with that mindset he still got to much growing up to do and needs to move it along and do it.
Frankly I have been treating them like the jump-off, so does that make me one to...are we one anothers jump-offs....lol...well that makes the relationship equal....lol...although I am not trying to move, just get mine...
Well here's the deal... as a woman you are one of those based on the category that the MAN puts you in. You may not even know you hold that particular title because SOME men will try to sell you the moon when all he really wants is to get his dyck wet. So it's also time for men to be real because truth be told not every woman they have been with they considered to be wifey material...
I hear you GIGIIt is definetly a title that they keep to themselves. I was just saying I wouldn't willingly be called wifey, now when he talking to his friends about what category there is very little I can do about that, but to know I have been ranked any of those trifling titles is a NO NO!!!!
Hey LadySol ~ Please believe me I hear exactly what you are saying but know and trust you ARE one of the 4. Just because he does not verbalize it to you or put it out there where you can hear that he's labeled you one of the 4 does not mean that he has not put you in one of those positions. but to know I have been ranked any of those trifling titles is a NO NO!!!! Does it really matter if you HEAR him call you the title because subliminally he's already labeled you... that's the heart of the article. Women refuse to believe that they would be any of those labels but the fact is SOME men do and according to them you ARE one of those labels whether you hear him say it or not. To keep you in that spot he would never tell you what lane he's put you in...
@GiGi......I hear you... I know what I am and where I place myself I do it on purpose, none the less what he says to his boys is always one thing, and what he says to a woman is totally different, But like I said, I treat them all like jump-offs myself, so that is how I go into it, we on the same page nothing more nothing less, we all got titles for each other, their our maintenance man, movie man, going out dude, and so on but we don't telll them that to their faces, just as they don't and if they knew which one they were they would most likely not like it either, so I still stand by it, he don't tell me and I won't tell him....lol
lmbo! ^5 gurl and I feel that... lol!
I am sorry but no self respecting woman would ever allow any man/male to call her wifey!
Evidently there are... basketball wives, football wives, real housewives of atl, ny, nj, bev hills.

Fact ~ wifey is not a phrase that just appeared. It has been around since marriage. The only differecnce throught time is the intention behind giving a woman the title of being a wife/wifey. I heard old school cats back in the 60's and 70's affectionately cal their spouses the wifey, lil' woman, lil' wifey, mama, mami. Just because these terminologies don't match with what I know a wife to be doesn't mean that there aren't a new generation of young women who wouldn't proudly bear those titles. That's how we got Katt Stacks and these other chicks proudly being jump offs bragging about what she f***** a man out of.

Would it be better if I equated the terminology for our generation? Ok..

wifey ... wife/lil' woman
babygirl ... gurlfriend
sidepiece ... phuck buddy
jumpoff ... hook-up

the terminology may have changed but the roles have always stayed the same...

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