ARE YOU SINGLE
DOES BEING SINGLE MEAN YOUR ALONE ..
WHY IS IT WHEN WE MEET SOMEONE SINGLE WE ASSUME THEY ARE ALONE? If they are single that usually that means that they are talking to other people trying to find the special one. Doesn't mean they are sleeping with them but getting to know them ... do you have issues with that if you are interested in that person, they are still trying to find out if they are interested in you? So many people make the mistake thinking if they are interested in someone, that the person should automatically feel the same way even if they are treating them like they are the world ..
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Permalink Reply by Nate Smith on
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Lol!!! It's a possibility of her doing that Chill.
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Permalink Reply by StopIt on -
I don't assume... well, not since my 20s anyway. Back then if they acted like they were interested I went for it. Almost got caught up a couple of times but I found out they were hooked up before things went too far. After that, always ask up front even if there's no interest for anything other than friendship. And never assume they are interested in me just because I may have been interested in them. I've mentioned before about being mature enough to realize that not everyone will look at you in the same light you may look at them in. And with that you must also realize that even though you may be talking to them, they may be talking to someone else.
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Permalink Reply by Champagne on -
Absolutely...I always ask if a man is dating someone else...I even ask if she saw us together would she be upset or if asked would she say they were dating of just seeing each other
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Permalink Reply by terrance hymon on -
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WHY IS IT WHEN WE MEET SOMEONE SINGLE, WE ASSUME THEY ARE ALONE? i think we assume for if they are not with someone then they must be alone. the term single didnt start until someone who was spoken for wanted to see more people. they was able to be with the one they was spoken for and still talk with other people without being under suspicion.
do you have issues with that if you are interested in that person, they are still trying to find out if they are interested in you? yeah i do have a issue with that but it also tells me that a person cant make up their own mind who they want in their life. so they might not be the right person for me after all.
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Permalink Reply by Dexter on -
Terrance,
Hhhhhhhhmmmm interesting so if NO sex is involved you think its wrong for a guy to talk to several people ... so if you are NOT the one then he has wasted time talking with just you ... hhhmmm okkkkkk
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Permalink Reply by terrance hymon on
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if there is no sex involved then what that person is doing is flirting. so if they are just flirting then i think it is fine for them to continue to talk without sex being on the agenda.
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Permalink Reply by terrance hymon on
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for a man sex dont mean commitment.....try telling that to some women.
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Permalink Reply by Lady J. on -
Terrance
maybe they've just not made up their mind yet or maybe you are not 'the one" (not meaning 'you' per say) so they're still looking while keeping you on standby lol ... it happens all the time, both men & woman do it.
l'd also add this: the term "dating" should also be defined; does 'daing' mean we/you are exclusive? .... Some ppl see "dating" like shopping, meaning, they are undeciced on who they wanna be with or they haven't chosen 'the one" yet, so they are still looking & keeping their options open; seeing more than one person ... l can deal with the man who tells me, up front, "i'm single & dating" or "i'm seeing other ppl" better than the man who tries to decieve me, by making me think i'm the only one, when he knows he's seeing other ppl. Being up front from jump gives a person the chance to decide whether or not they wanna keep seeing the person and accept things on those terms or if they wanna keep it moving & find smeone who's single & available & unoccupied.
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Permalink Reply by terrance hymon on
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LADY J
what i am saying from dexter topic is that anyone can be single and have someone in their life and still talk (flirt) with other people noting that they are not alone.
now on "dating". when i was in college a friend of mine dated a lot of women cause he had a car on campus. when we asked how was it man he would say that he was just out on a date, nothing happen. i thought he was just bragging trying to be a gentleman, but in actuality nothing happen he was just on a date with a woman. from that point on i saw dating like this: on one date (day) on the calendar i would date this woman, on another date (day) on the calendar i would date a totally different woman. so i could be single and dating multiple woman. i personally dont like the term seeing other people it make me feel like i am a dog of a man. the term single and dating is much better to me for i am telling the woman, who i am talking to, what i am actually doing. so if she still want to go out with me then it is her decision.
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Permalink Reply by Dexter on
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Terrance,
Here is the bad thing when a guy does that he gets a bad reputation that he is a dog or a player because he is shopping around EVEN THOUGH he is NOT having sex with them ... SO LADIES tell me your feelings on this ... why can a guy just go out with several women because he is trying to find the right one for him, As long as sex is not involved?
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